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DR. ROSE SCHLAFF (she/her) HAS BEEN FEATURED AS A SEX EXPERT IN:

YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF:

❌ You WANT to want more sex but you’ve noticed it’s hard to get yourself in the mood and you’re wondering how to increase your libido

❌ You know you feel happier and more connected to your partner when you have more frequent intimacy and you’re worried that the current state of your sex life may negatively impact your relationship…you hate feeling like you’re disappointing your partner

❌ You’re missing the days when sex felt natural, easy, fun, and exciting

❌ You experience discomfort or pelvic pain during sex and it’s impacting how much you enjoy intimacy

❌ Even when sex feels good, it’s a bit routine, at times you find yourself stuck in your head

It would be my pleasure to guide you. After years of experience as a sex counselor and pelvic therapist, I know that it might seem impossible but the relationship and sex life of your dreams are closer than you might imagine.

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IMAGINE HOW IT WOULD FEEL IF YOU:

✅ Knew exactly what to do to increase your sex drive, and arousal whenever you wanted

✅ Felt energized and excited by the thought of intimacy instead of drained by the thought of having sex (or even talking about sex)

✅ Felt unshakable confidence communicating anything in or out of the bedroom and you never dreaded a tough conversation with your partner again

✅ Laughed more, felt a deeper connection, and realized you don’t sweat the small stuff as much anymore

✅ Saw that look in your partner’s eye that you haven’t seen since you two started dating and felt an electric tingle throughout your body in anticipation of date nights feeling like you have a sexy secret

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KARSON’S STORY

Karson (she/her) went from having difficulty reconnecting to her sexual self after having kids to feeling an electricity she hasn’t felt since she was a newlywed, pre-kids.

“One of the reasons that working with Rose is so amazing is that, like, there's just such an instant, comfort level… I was saying things out loud that I haven't ever said… Rose holds such a safe space”

BETTINA’S STORY

“Rose is amazing! [She] truly changed my perspective on love, sex, and my own body. Thank you so much, Rose, can’t wait to work with you again!” - Bettina (she/her)

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ABOUT DR. ROSE SCHLAFF, DPT, WHC, IF

Dr. Rose Schlaff (she/her) created Be Well with Rose, LLC to help women and LGBTQ leaders overcome overwhelm so they can reignite their spark, step into their power and reclaim pleasure in and out of the bedroom.

After years of clinical experience as a Sex Counselor and Pelvic Physical Therapist working with the world-renowned Sexual Medicine Physician, Dr. Irwin Goldstein, Dr. Rose saw that in order to improve your sex life and strengthen your relationship(s), it’s important to take a holistic approach that addresses the unique intersectionalities of your identity and looks at the physical, emotional, cultural, societal, interpersonal and behavioral factors that impact connection, desire, and pleasure.

She speaks nationally and internationally as a sex expert on the topics of sexuality, relationships, communication, pleasure, and pelvic health and works with individuals and couples all over the world as a Sexologist. You may not have heard of sexology before, it’s the study of human sexuality.

Dr. Rose is all about creating simple daily rituals informed by physiology and sexy science to teach you how to amplify your desire and arousal so you can feel confident, connected, and carefree in your relationship, both in and out of the bedroom.

In addition to her practice as a Sexologist, she leads group coaching programs that help women and LGBTQ leaders step into powerful pleasure in their life, work and relationships.

Dr. Rose has been published in the Journal of Women’s Health Physical Therapy and has presented trainings for medical doctors, health care professionals, therapists, business owners, and other professionals all over the world at institutions like UCSD Medical School, Kaiser Permanente, Naval Medical Center, Alvarado Hospital, University of Michigan’s Sexual Health Certificate Program, San Diego State University’s Marriage and Family Therapy Program, Pelvic Floor Sexual Medicine Provider Meeting and abroad in Kerala, India, and Beijing, China.

Click below to schedule your FREE strategy call with Sex Counselor and Pelvic Therapist, Dr. Rose so you can release stress around sex, rekindle your relationship spark and connect more deeply in and out of the bedroom.

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CYNTHIA’S STORY

Cynthia (she/her) went from having to amp herself up all day to get herself to initiate sex to feeling comfort, joy, and excitement in bed and deepening her connection to her partner even outside physical intimacy.

“I just feel like a completely different person when it comes to my sex life. All thanks to this program… It truly is life-changing. I don't think it's something I ever could have done on my own. ”

SARAH’S STORY

Sarah (she/her) went from dreading sex to looking forward to connecting physically and feeling unshakeable confidence in her ability to talk openly about sex.

“Oh my god it’s so worth the effort to do this work…it's so worth it and you are quite honestly so amazing to work with it. I can't imagine going through this process with another person… this made such an impact in my life”

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Reclaim the Flame Challenge Day 4

Today we talked about the easiest method to add excitement and consistency to your s*x life so you can:

💥stop spending your time and energy worrying about s*x⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
💥feel confident in your ability to take control of your libido even after a long day of work

Reclaim the Flame Challenge Day 3

It’s day 3 and we’re talking all about Overcoming the Biggest Roadblocks That Contribute to Stress and Resistance Around Sex, we'll be covering:

✅the 3 most common things that contribute to stress and resistance around sex

✅And how to overcome these common barriers

so you can walk away knowing exactly how to:
💥become aware of how some of your unconscious thinking around sex impacts your ability to get aroused
💥feel energized by sex, not drained by the stress surrounding it
💥feel the desire to initiate sex even on a work night

I’m teaching this 5 day free training so more of you can:

🔥feel the butterflies
🔥give each other “the look” you haven’t seen since you two started dating
🔥release resistance around s*x and have FUN in bed

Reclaim the Flame Challenge Day 2

Today we covered bio-hacking your physiology to amplify arousal and desire⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

So you can: ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
💥become open and available for intimacy after a day at work⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
💥feel energized by sex⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
💥feel the desire to initiate sex even on a work night⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

I’m teaching this 5 day free training so more of you can:

🔥feel the butterflies
🔥give each other “the look” you haven’t seen since you two started dating
🔥release resistance around s*x and have FUN in bed

Reclaim the Flame Challenge Day 1

Today we covered unlocking your s*xual potential which includes:

✅the 3 most common places couples get stuck when they’re trying to keep the spark alive and why this happens

✅And the 3 things you *actually* need to do to unlock your s*xual potential so you can feel confident, carefree, and connected in your relationship in and out of the bedroom.

I’m teaching this 5 day free training so more of you can:

🔥feel the butterflies
🔥give each other “the look” you haven’t seen since you two started dating
🔥release resistance around s*x and have FUN in bed

Reclaim the Flame [PODCAST]

After spending the last 5 years helping women and queer folks break down the barriers to intimacy, I have seen that although it is super important to address the physical body to optimize intimacy, there is SO much more to great sex than just being physically ready for it. So let’s talk about

Reclaiming the flame in the bedroom (or wherever else you like it...)

The BS that media portrays about sex and how it warps our sense of reality

Let go of the self and societal “shoulds” and start taking up space

Make talking about sex and the challenges in the bedroom a normal conversation topic

Plus so much more!

Stop Having Sex... Here's Why

Why I told my client, P, to stop having sex and how it saved her marriage.

Listen, I see you, you’re a badass who reaches your full potential in most areas of your life.

You’re a great friend and incredible boss.

You love your partner and want your relationship to be:
✅deeply connected
✅fulfilling
✅fun for years to come

You KNOW you two are happier, more connected, and vibrant when you’re having good sex

This problem is, you WANT to have great sex but whenever your partner initiates, it never feels like a good time, you’re:
🛑too tired
🛑thinking about work
🛑bloated from dinner
🛑in the middle of law and order SVU

Which makes you feel guilty, frustrated and worried you two have lost your spark

You two are so good together, it’s not fair that things in the bedroom aren’t going as smoothly as the rest of your relationship

I know how frustrating it can be when you and your partner are on different pages, when you want to connect but can’t seem to sync up.

You’re not alone, I’ve spent the last 4 years helping badasses like you that feel like their sexy sides have gone to sleep reignite the sexual flame and create fun, deeply connected and passionate relationships in and out of the bedroom.

By using my 3-step process:
1️⃣unleash your sexual potential
2️⃣harness the power of your physiology so you can bio-hack desire and take control of your libido
3️⃣create consistent pressure-free connection and passion for years to come

Being Unapologetic About Your Desires [PODCAST]

As women, we often put our desires on the backburner. Honoring what you want is the best form of self-love, so it’s important to voice out what you want unapologetically, may it be in the boardroom and the bedroom.

In this very special Valentine’s episode, I chat with Jamila Payne on her podcast about…

How to identify your deepest desires if you’re unclear on exactly what they are
The secret to confidently command what you want with both your business colleagues and romantic partners
The process for moving out of your head and into your body when it’s time to turn off work mode.

3 Reasons Why You Haven’t Had Sex in a Month

If you’re a badass in business who hasn’t gotten busy in over a month, this is for you.

First off, you’re not alone.

Many of my clients tell me they only realize that it’s “been a while” when they notice their partner has been getting grumpier and grumpier.

They often have to look at a calendar and ask themselves “when was the last time we were intimate?”

Why are so many women on a 30 day sexless sabbatical?

Here are the 3 of the most common reasons I see in my coaching practice (and what you can do about it).

Remember, regardless of whether you’re bored in the bedroom, weighed down by the pressure of sex-pectations or drained by unsexy stress I believe every woman is capable of reclaiming her sexy spark and creating a lasting and passionate relationship filled with intimacy that is fun and easy.

I know this is possible because I’ve seen it happen time after time with my clients, like:

🔥Cynthia who went from feeling like she had to psych herself up to get off of her cozy spot on the couch to have sex and now loves spending her Sunday afternoons in bed with her partner laughing and exploring new and fun ways to make each other feel good.

🔥And K who used to tell herself, “I’m just not a sexual person anymore - I’m a wife and a mom and I’m not in my 20s anymore” and now feels her body light up and tingle when she thinks about the steamy date nights and sexy adults-only vacations she goes on with her husband

If you want to reignite your sexual flame so you can create a deeply connected, passionate and lasting relationship in and out of the bedroom and would like some support I would love to hear from you.