NEUROSCIENCE OF DESIRE
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Get the relationship and sex life of your dreams with science-backed strategies designed to significantly improve sexual desire and sexual satisfaction!
DR. ROSE SCHLAFF (she/her) HAS BEEN FEATURED AS A SEX EXPERT IN:
YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF:
❌ You WANT to want more sex but you’ve noticed it’s hard to get yourself in the mood and you’re wondering how to increase your libido
❌ You know you feel happier and more connected to your partner when you have more frequent intimacy and you’re worried that the current state of your sex life may negatively impact your relationship…you hate feeling like you’re disappointing your partner
❌ You’re missing the days when sex felt natural, easy, fun, and exciting
❌ You experience discomfort or pelvic pain during sex and it’s impacting how much you enjoy intimacy
❌ Even when sex feels good, it’s a bit routine, at times you find yourself stuck in your head
It would be my pleasure to guide you. After years of experience as a sex counselor and pelvic therapist, I know that it might seem impossible but the relationship and sex life of your dreams are closer than you might imagine.
IMAGINE HOW IT WOULD FEEL IF YOU:
✅ Knew exactly what to do to increase your sex drive, and arousal whenever you wanted
✅ Felt energized and excited by the thought of intimacy instead of drained by the thought of having sex (or even talking about sex)
✅ Felt unshakable confidence communicating anything in or out of the bedroom and you never dreaded a tough conversation with your partner again
✅ Laughed more, felt a deeper connection, and realized you don’t sweat the small stuff as much anymore
✅ Saw that look in your partner’s eye that you haven’t seen since you two started dating and felt an electric tingle throughout your body in anticipation of date nights feeling like you have a sexy secret
KARSON’S STORY
Karson (she/her) went from having difficulty reconnecting to her sexual self after having kids to feeling an electricity she hasn’t felt since she was a newlywed, pre-kids.
“One of the reasons that working with Rose is so amazing is that, like, there's just such an instant, comfort level… I was saying things out loud that I haven't ever said… Rose holds such a safe space”
BETTINA’S STORY
“Rose is amazing! [She] truly changed my perspective on love, sex, and my own body. Thank you so much, Rose, can’t wait to work with you again!” - Bettina (she/her)
You may have been told that in order to have great sex, you just need to:
Try some wine and lube
Try talking dirty
Schedule sex
Just do it
Try new positions
Buy yourself some lingerie
Eat oysters and chocolate-covered strawberries
But you’re frustrated, it feels like none of those things seem to consistently move the needle in helping you feel in control of your libido so you can feel excited and open to intimacy.
Many people tell me:
I’ve already checked my hormones and they’re normal
I do yoga and am gluten-free and dairy-free
I work with a yoni egg
I masturbate
I get waxed
I do kegel exercises
I listen to sex podcasts
I schedule date nights and have even gone to couple’s counseling
It feels like I’m doing all the right things so why does my sex drive still feel so unpredictable? Why do I feel like I have to try so hard to get in a sexy headspace??
Maybe you’ve even begun to tell yourself:
“I’m just not a sexual person anymore, I’m a mom and a wife now,” or
This is just what happens when you are in a relationship 5, 15, or 30+ years, or
It will get better with time on its own or
When my schedule calms down and life is less busy our sex life will work itself out
But here’s the thing…
I know you love your partner and you KNOW you feel more connected when you have more physical intimacy…
But the problem is…
It never feels like the right time to have sex and it feels like it’s creating distance in your relationship and draining your energy.
Does this sound familiar?
Every time your partner initiates sex, it never feels like the right time:
You feel exhausted
You’re touched out
You’re just trying to watch real housewives in your sweatpants in peace.
At times, you feel like you have to choose between precious relaxation and self-care time or time with your partner sometimes you even feel resentment creep in even though you wish you didn’t.
You want sex to feel like an exciting treat at the end of the day, not one more thing someone needs from you.
Sometimes you even notice yourself avoiding activities that might lead to sex like cuddling or kissing because you just don’t have the energy to see that disappointed look on your partner’s face when you say no, even though you know they’re trying their best not to show it.
When you do get into it, you enjoy it but it can feel a bit routine and sometimes even find your mind wandering during, wondering if you ever put that laundry in the dryer, it makes you feel guilty like your partner can tell you aren’t fully present.
Your relationship feels so in sync outside the bedroom so why is it so hard to figure out how to get on the same page about sex?
It’s not fair that sex is draining your energy and contributing to stress and distance in your relationship, you deserve to feel ease and excitement around intimacy.
I know how frustrating it can be when you and your partner are on different pages.
Like when you’re getting into bed after a long day and you get a knot in your stomach when your partner starts kissing you because you know they’re about to initiate sex and you’re tired of rejecting them
Or when it’s been a week… or maybe 4 since y’all got busy and things have felt a bit disconnected and tense between you two lately and you’re worried you two will start to feel like roommates.
YOU’RE NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG.
The thing is, sex and desire can be complex and difficult to navigate on your own.
YOU’RE NOT THE ONLY ONE FEELING THIS WAY.
That’s why I’ve spent almost a decade helping women and queer folks release stress around sex so they can rekindle their relationship spark and create deep connection in and out of the bedroom.
I want you to know,
EVERY PERSON IS CAPABLE OF REIGNITING THEIR SEXUAL SPARK AND CREATING A RELATIONSHIP FILLED WITH LASTING PASSION AND DEEP CONNECTION.
It’s available to you too if you want it.
Regardless of:
how old you are,
how many kids you have,
and how long you’ve been together.
Even if you think:
“I’m just not a sexual person anymore,
I’m not in my 20s,
I’m a wife and a business owner and a mom now.”
Because after spending the last 5 years helping women and queer folks reconnect to their sexual selves using simple evidence-based practices based on the physiology of human desire…
I’ve seen how when you connect to your sensuality and prioritize pleasure and connection, you regain your vitality and reinvigorate your relationship.
So if this is possible, why are so many women and queer folks feeling like sex is just one more thing on their to-do list, draining their energy and creating stress in their relationship even when they feel like they’re trying all the right things?
Because sexuality is multi-faceted, it must be cared for holistically with an understanding of the 3 main pillars that impact your desire, chemistry, and sexual connection.
Once you address these 3 steps you can:
✅unlock your sexual potential,
✅get your brain and body back on the same page,
✅so that connecting with your partner can feel fun and easy again.
CYNTHIA
Cynthia went from having to amp herself up all day to get herself to initiate sex to feeling comfort, joy, and excitement in bed and deepening her connection to her partner even outside physical intimacy.
“I just feel like a completely different person when it comes to my sex life. All thanks to this program… It truly is life-changing. I don't think it's something I ever could have done on my own. ”
TAYLOR
Taylor went from feeling a knee-jerk negative reaction to anything sexual to experiencing the best sex of her life.
“It was just a wonderful group of people…Working with Rose, I mean, you'll never regret it…It's just magic.”
KARSON
Karson went from having difficulty reconnecting to her sexual self after having kids to feeling an electricity she hasn’t felt since she was a newlywed, pre-kids.
“One of the reasons that working with Rose is so amazing is that, like, there's just such an instant, comfort level… I was saying things out loud that I haven't ever said… Rose holds such a safe space”
ABOUT DR. ROSE SCHLAFF, DPT, WHC, IF
Dr. Rose Schlaff (she/her) created Be Well with Rose, LLC to help women and LGBTQ leaders overcome overwhelm so they can reignite their spark, step into their power and reclaim pleasure in and out of the bedroom.
After years of clinical experience as a Sex Counselor and Pelvic Physical Therapist working with the world-renowned Sexual Medicine Physician, Dr. Irwin Goldstein, Dr. Rose saw that in order to improve your sex life and strengthen your relationship(s), it’s important to take a holistic approach that addresses the unique intersectionalities of your identity and looks at the physical, emotional, cultural, societal, interpersonal and behavioral factors that impact connection, desire, and pleasure.
She speaks nationally and internationally as a sex expert on the topics of sexuality, relationships, communication, pleasure, and pelvic health and works with individuals and couples all over the world as a Sexologist. You may not have heard of sexology before, it’s the study of human sexuality.
Dr. Rose is all about creating simple daily rituals informed by physiology and sexy science to teach you how to amplify your desire and arousal so you can feel confident, connected, and carefree in your relationship, both in and out of the bedroom.
In addition to her practice as a Sexologist, she leads group coaching programs that help women and LGBTQ leaders step into powerful pleasure in their life, work and relationships.
Dr. Rose has been published in the Journal of Women’s Health Physical Therapy and has presented trainings for medical doctors, health care professionals, therapists, business owners, and other professionals all over the world at institutions like UCSD Medical School, Kaiser Permanente, Naval Medical Center, Alvarado Hospital, University of Michigan’s Sexual Health Certificate Program, San Diego State University’s Marriage and Family Therapy Program, Pelvic Floor Sexual Medicine Provider Meeting and abroad in Kerala, India, and Beijing, China.
Looking for 1:1 support? Click below to schedule your FREE strategy call with Sex Counselor and Pelvic Therapist, Dr. Rose so you can release stress around sex, rekindle your relationship spark and connect more deeply in and out of the bedroom.
CYNTHIA’S STORY
Cynthia (she/her) went from having to amp herself up all day to get herself to initiate sex to feeling comfort, joy, and excitement in bed and deepening her connection to her partner even outside physical intimacy.
“I just feel like a completely different person when it comes to my sex life. All thanks to this program… It truly is life-changing. I don't think it's something I ever could have done on my own. ”
SARAH’S STORY
Sarah (she/her) went from dreading sex to looking forward to connecting physically and feeling unshakeable confidence in her ability to talk openly about sex.
“Oh my god it’s so worth the effort to do this work…it's so worth it and you are quite honestly so amazing to work with it. I can't imagine going through this process with another person… this made such an impact in my life”